More "No sex" for me

So I am giving up for the time being.  I am sick of trying to get some.  No matter what I do, it's the wrong way.  Last night I was freezing, so I simply asked to cuddle up against his back.  He gave me this noise that was across between a "grrrr" and a *sigh.*  I took that as a no, curled up in a ball, and tried not to think of the rejection.  It's really wearing on my soul again. 

Off to work.

3:04 PM - Nov. 10, 2005 - post comment

Meh

Don't take it too hard, he's problably just not the cuddly type. I for one love nothing more than to cuddle up with a woman, but then that's just me.

Anonymoose - 6:10 PM - Nov. 10, 2005

fight...for your right

Do you both work at different times?
You posted this at 3:04PM
and then you said you were "off to work."

It is sad
that you keep trying and get nowhere.
And I know it makes / drives you mad.

I have asked myself...
"Why is it me that has to ask for it every time?"
Why do I need an appointment?
It makes no sense.
Why is it that I am trying to improve myself
and improve our sex life...
when she doesn't even give a damn?
Why do I always reach over to touch her leg
when we are in the car,
or hold her hand...
when she can do the same thing to me sometime?
Shit...I deserve it too...not just her!
Sounds petty...
BUT IS IT???

After years of this...
sure, you can just say "f*ck it..."
but sooner or later,
you figure out
that you can never win with that strategy.
YOU CAN NEVER WIN.

If you are honest with yourself...
you have to realize that this is simply too important to you...
and you cannot simply concede to his wishes any longer.

It is time to stop being nice about it...
It is time to get REALLY PISSED OFF!
Forget the prod, and take out the whip!
Even threaten to leave him, if he doesn't fork 'it' over...
Then, whether or not, he w-a-n-t-s to do it...
he will...because he n-e-e-d-s you...
and the both of you will be happier once you do it.
And if he doesn't need you...
then it is time to pack your bags!

Steve - 10:30 PM - Nov. 10, 2005